Apparently when a boyfriend or girlfriend doesn’t live up to our standards some people are quicker to recover than others. The friend that I wrote about in my earlier post has made it through the sadness stage and moved right in to anger/bitterness. Holy shit. She’s even ready to start dating again. She can’t even wait for him to get back for them to talk and finalize things before she’s ready to move on. I’m talking to her right now as I type this (it’s easy to just listen and not interact if I don’t have to add my own $.02) and some of the things that she’s saying are outrageous.
This is just a fucked situation they’re in. How do people get in to these situations? By choice, that’s how.